How Do I File For Divorce?

by admin on January 5, 2010

If your marriage is over and there is no chance of reconciliation, then you may want to file for divorce. Before you do this, you need to collect together all your personal information and business paperwork, because you are going to need as many receipts as you have to prove marital ownership. So, collect together bank statements, mortgage documents, income statements, retirement plans, and so on. If you are in debt, collect that information too, so that you have a very clear picture of what you own as well as what you owe.

Think about how you are going to split up the joint property items, deciding who is to get what. This may be easy enough for smaller items, but when it comes to the home you both share, it can be difficult to decide. However, it is to your advantage if you can file for an uncontested divorce, one where there are no issues outstanding.

For one thing, it shortens the filing process for your divorce, and secondly it is cheaper. Going through the divorce process can be stressful, emotional and expensive, but if you can agree ahead of time on the settlement, then the uncontested divorce will be cheaper, and you will get to keep more of your money, which will help you set up your new home and life after your divorce.

One of the major difficulties arises when there are children involved in the divorce, especially when there is a custody battle. If the marriage is over and both parents want custody, the result can be a long drawn out battle, which is very unsettling for everyone involved, especially the children.

Once you have all your paperwork together, see an attorney. You might want to try to file the papers in the court system yourself, but although this can save you money, you should get some legal advice, just to make sure that everything is reasonable and good for your particular situation. If you miss something, it could affect your whole future, as it will be too late to do something about it after you have filed. Make sure too that you know the laws for the state you are living in, whether you have to live in the state for a certain period of time, and whether there are any special filing procedures you need to know about.

The cost of filing for a divorce is generally under $150, and while you are going through the filing process, make sure that you keep a note of all financial transactions, and also of any decisions regarding property that the two of you decide. Always check with your attorney before signing anything, so that you can have it explained in simple English what it means and what the implications are for your situation.

Above all, when you file for divorce, realize that this gives you the chance of a fresh start in life, so take advantage of it, and make the most of your new life.

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